Somethings remind me to one Japan dorama with title One Litre of Tears, which is highly recommended by me. It’s based on true story of a Japanese woman who get spinocerebellar degeneration(SCD) less than a year after enrolling in her high school. This disease will damage your neuron little by little and cause your death in the end. Why do I recommend this drama? You can see how much this girl struggle to accept the disease while being cheerful in her life. You can get more information about the drama here.
We often face some serious issues around our life, which are truly absorbed our strength. After finishing these types of issues, we’ll feel like our life spirit has reduced ten fold, that’s when we need additional strength to stand up for nth time to face another. Issues, troubles, and many other sad things will always come to our life in repetition. They won’t end until our life end by itself. When those times come, what do you do to fix this?
I believe that all of us have some special person to help us stand when we need strength. Either family, friends, or any other people can be those important people. By sharing our trouble with them, or even only by remembering those people, we’ll gain unbelievable strength. Those people smile and happiness which is really important for us, will be one of many other reasons to hold on and keep going.
We can also hear so many songs which lyrics represent to the strength we need when breaking down. For example you raise me up by josh groban, mariah carey hero, a goose’s dream – korean pop song which is become popular because of Dream High drama, Jason Mraz – I won’t give up, Lady Antebellum – Someday you will, for Muslim we have InsyaAllah by Maher Zain, and many more. Listening to these types of song made us realize that we’ve been in this world with specific missions given to us by God, while completing one by one you’ll face many types of hardships.
While having those two methods, I thing the most effective way to gain strength is to look after people who have many ‘disadvantages’ than us. I have to give mark in the disadvantages part because they maybe disadvantages for us, but not for them who have it. If you still wondering what kind of disadvantages I talk about here, disadvantages can mean disabilities, incurable diseases, finance in competencies, etc. How can they make us gain strength? We should remember that we have been better than them in each aspect, while they do they best to cover up their disabilities and be success, we shouldn’t get lost to them as we’ve better. Do your best, gain strength, for them also. You’ll be happy. See the drama above if you want to know how they try their best not to ever give up.
The only thing I need to remind myself over and over is, there must be a good thing which will be happen to me after each of these issues pass. It can be knowledge, new experience, we can be stronger, or others. We should know that God is always there beside us, which is the most important thing to hold on when you get lost. God loves us more than we love ourselves. He lets those issues happen so that we can gain another good thing in ourselves.
I think that’s it for now, I need to update this post if I have other methods to do when needing strength. You can also share your method here, of course. We need to help each other, right?
Cao, have a nice day ahead~